First of all… Happy New Year!
One of my biggest resolutions for 2025 is to post on my blog (almost) every day. Motherhood has kept me so busy lately that I haven’t had much time to focus on writing, but I’m excited to start fresh and share my journey.
I’m two weeks postpartum now and learning how to care for a newborn while keeping up with a super energetic toddler. Parenthood isn’t easy, and no one knows everything—but we’re always learning. Having two little ones has been a challenge in so many ways, but it’s also taught me so much. Here are a few tips I’d love to share with moms who are about to take on life with two (or more!) kids:
Get Additional Help
Whether it’s a family member or an au pair/nanny, having an extra pair of hands can make a huge difference. Don’t underestimate how tired you’ll be after delivery or how long it’ll take to recover. Give yourself the time and space to rest—you’ve just been through nine months of pregnancy and childbirth!
Having someone to help watch your children, cook meals, or handle household tasks can give you the break you need. I can’t emphasize enough how much this helped me.
Don’t Disrupt Your First Child’s Routine
Your toddler is already adjusting to sharing you with a new sibling, so keeping their routine consistent can help them feel secure. If they’re in daycare, keep them enrolled. If they love climbing into your bed for morning cuddles, let them keep doing that. If they bring you books to read, make time to read to them.
Yes, it takes energy, but that’s why having extra help and prioritizing rest is so important. These little moments mean so much to your toddler, and maintaining their sense of normalcy can make the transition smoother for everyone.
Stay Hydrated and Well-Rested
This is crucial. In the first few days postpartum, I didn’t take care of myself the way I should have. I was overwhelmed with pumping, taking care of a newborn, and trying to manage my toddler’s needs. I barely rested, and it caught up with me quickly.
My body was so sore, and my energy was completely drained. My husband was also exhausted, and we both struggled to keep up. That’s when we realized we needed to step back, accept more help, and make self-care a priority.
Drink lots of water, eat nourishing meals, and sneak in rest whenever you can. Once you’ve had time to heal and establish a routine, you might not need as much outside help, but it’s absolutely okay to rely on it at first.
That said, good luck with your parenting journey and remember that while it may feel overwhelming at times, make sure you enjoy all the cuteness that is your new baby!
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