Threw my toddler a surprise birthday party. At home. Not realizing that throwing a party at home for a kid is quite the experience. I learned a few things along the way that I want to share because if you’re planning a party for your little one, you will need to keep a few things in mind.

First, make sure there’s space for the kids to run around and play. Toddlers have so much energy that they need to let out. If you’re throwing a party at home, think about where they can play safely. We kept the play area for the kids in the loft and all doors locked and stairs gated so there’s no sudden falls.
Next, the food and drinks. You have to think about both kids and adults, so don’t just have soda, wine, or fancy sparkling drinks. Parents don’t want their kids drinking soda, and obviously, they’re not getting wine. Keep it simple— fruit punch, apple juice, orange juice, and/or lots of water. Also, balance out the snacks. Sure, have chips and cookies, but also throw in some fruit and veggie options because parents will love that, and it helps balance out all the sugar. And.. for the main food? Pizza. Kids love pizza. And so do adults. It’s easy, it’s a crowd-pleaser, and you don’t have to stress over a complicated menu. For appetizers, chips and dip NEVER fail.
Now, the cake. Some people go all out with these extravagant custom cakes that cost hundreds of dollars. Honestly? Not worth it. Half the time, your kid won’t even care. Just do what our parents used to do— go to the grocery store, get a big cake, and maybe add a few decorations to match the theme. It’s easier, cheaper, and just as fun. Also, limit the sweets! The only dessert people should be eating is the cake. If you also serve cupcakes, macarons, brownies, or whatever else, everyone’s going to fill up before the cake even gets cut, and then you’re stuck with way too much leftover cake. And that’s not fun.
One more thing and pretty obvious— use disposable plates, cups, napkins, utensils, everything. The last thing you want is to be up late washing a big ‘ole pile of dishes or waking up the next morning to a messy kitchen. Don’t do this to yourself. Make it easy for yourself with the disposable stuff.
At the end of the day, the most important thing is that your little one has fun. Keep it simple, keep them entertained, and don’t stress about the small stuff. After all, they won’t even remember it— but you definitely will!
Would love to hear about your experience throwing a party for your little one(s). Please reply in the comments below!
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